{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Five Minute Sherpa","provider_url":"https:\/\/samuelrainey.com\/blog","author_name":"Samuel Rainey, M.A., LPC","author_url":"https:\/\/samuelrainey.com\/blog\/author\/admin\/","title":"Adversity Matters &#8212; Five Minute Sherpa","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"miOgsOPkwq\"><a href=\"https:\/\/samuelrainey.com\/blog\/2012\/11\/adversity-matters\/\">Adversity Matters<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/samuelrainey.com\/blog\/2012\/11\/adversity-matters\/embed\/#?secret=miOgsOPkwq\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Adversity Matters&#8221; &#8212; Five Minute Sherpa\" data-secret=\"miOgsOPkwq\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/samuelrainey.com\/blog\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"(Authors note: This article was originally published in September 2012 at StartMarriageRight.com) I had someone tell me the other day, \u201cSamuel, I\u2019ve dealt with it. I\u2019m done and have moved on. There\u2019s no changing the fact that my husband just won\u2019t love and care for me the way I need him to. I don\u2019t feel [&hellip;]"}